"give it to me now!"

A SPOILED CHILD GETS WHATEVER THEY WANT AS SOON AS THEY WANT IT FOR NO DESERVING REASON WHATSOEVER.

No one wants there child to be like Veruca Salt. She was a bad egg.

A bribe is different than spoiling a child. When you need your child to go to the doctor, you can bribe them and tell them if they go through it nicely without complaints, they can have a balloon. This is not harmful.
When you are potty training your child and you reward them for their efforts and success, this is not a spoiled child.
All children should be spoiled with love and affection and attention, things are not important.