dates

I think that parents who have multiple children need to make time for one and one time with each of their children. Not just the boys doing boy stuff or the girls going shopping. Dads can show an interest in their daughters activities as well as show them what he is interested in. Moms can play sports and do "boy stuff" as well. I think especially when a first born is introduced to a new baby brother the parents need to both take time to show their older child that this is an addition to the family not a replacement and you will always have time for them as well. It will help them not only with relationships with their parents but they will have less jealousy towards their new sibling.