Children go through phases where the only person they want is their mother, or their father. However there is also a stage that comes when they want nothing to do with their parents. No matter what do not let go of your children, they will come back. Their are times when they will do things you dislike, or listen to the peers instead of you, but you have to let them live and learn from their mistakes-- to a certain extent. It is hard to tell when it is okay to intervene, because you may think your child is doing something wrong, when in fact they are not. There should not be a need to force an attachment on your children, as long as they know you are there for them. You may love sports, your child maybe into art, let them explain what they like about it and maybe you could learn a little about it instead of having to force something on them. Children are people too, they need love, affection, understanding, and RESPECT.
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